Sunday, July 31, 2011

A Life Changing Experience

This is my son, Tony.....


If you had to guess, what do you think he has in common with this kid?



The correct answer is EVERYTHING because they are the same person.  I am going to share a very personal story with you today, one that makes me choke back tears of emotion.  I am doing this with Tony's permission because it was a journey of discovery, perserverance and dedication.  It is Tony's story of TRIUMPH and VICTORY!

This is Tony in March of 2009, on his 16th birthday. 


Tony wasn't always overweight.  When he was born he only weighed 6 and a half pounds.  He was a small and thin kid until 5th grade.  That was not an easy year.  He changed grammar schools, his best friend moved away, and his older brother had cancer.  Tony's response to all the turmoil in his life was to sit on his computer and play Runescape, sit alone in his room and play his playstation and eat a lot.  He drank several cokes per day.  He loved pizza, and nachos and chicken McNuggets.  And cookies.  And chips.  But not fruit or salad - ever.  You get the picture.

As Tony's mom I was frustrated and a nag.  I was constantly after him to stop eating, eat less, eat right, drink water, eat an apple, don't eat after 7 at night, eat a proper breakfast.  Ugh.  I tried everything to help him lose weight.  He tried baseball and basketball, I made him exercise and go bike riding.  But to tell you the truth, Tony was a grazer and every time he walked through the kitchen he was eating.  And the more I bugged him about it, the more he would sneak food into his room and eat in solitude.  It was a vicious and frustrating cycle.  Tony would occasionally try a diet but after a week of starving himself he would step on the scale and see that he hadn't lost a pound for his efforts and it would send him reeling back to the kitchen and back to his bad eating habits. 

This is Tony on his 17th birthday and this is the one picture that totally breaks my heart.  Does this look like a happy kid to you? 


About 2 months later Tony came to me and told me he wanted to go back on a diet.  He said he wanted to do it HIS way with no interference from me and he said he was determined to lose some weight this time.   Frankly, I was at the end of my rope and I was ready for him to try just about anything.  Honestly, he had tried losing weight so many times that I wasn't holding out much hope for this attempt either.  I told him to do what he had to do as long as he didn't starve himself.  Silently I said a prayer to God to PLEASE just let this kid lose some damn weight this time.

Day 1  Middle of May 2010  Weight 215 lbs

When Tony started this diet he was close to wearing XXL shirts and size 40 pants.  He was wearing larger clothes than his father.  At this time he had about 2 weeks left of his Junior year in high school. 

At first his diet consisted of cutting out ALL junk food like candy, cookies, chips, coke and fast food. He mainly ate fruit for breakfast, small lunch of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and dinner was pasta, steak, chicken or pork chops.

At the end of 2 weeks he had lost 11 pounds.  He went to his Junior Prom with a girl "friend" but this was actually the girl he really wanted to date.  Remember this because we'll come back to this later.  This is Tony in his first tux.  Nobody had noticed yet that he had lost any weight.



By the end of June 2010 he was starting to see some small results.  His tee shirts were actually starting to sag on him a little.  I also noticed that he was beginning to get out of the house more and doing things like fishing  and going for long walks.




Fourth of July weekend found him out on a jet ski with a smile on his face and down to size large shirts and 36 pants.



His meals by now were consisting of basically the same as before, no junk food at all, but he was doing a lot more exercise.  Any time he wanted a snack he ate an apple.  He ate a LOT of apples.

I think the real turning point for Tony came when he started his Senior year of high school.  When school started back up at the end of August kids were coming up to him and asking him how much weight he had lost.  One teacher actually asked him if he was sick.  Tony started going to the gym every day after school and working out for an hour to an hour and a half.  By this time he weighed 175 pounds and his old jeans no longer stayed up around his waist.




Around this time I started to notice a huge difference in Tony's outlook and attitude.  He started researching nutritional values of the food he was eating, looking at protein powders and taking vitamins.  He expanded his workout methods to include a punching bag and doing sit ups.   And suddenly he started dating.  Remember that girl I told you about?  The one he took to the prom as a friend?  The 2 of them were starting to spend more time together.

By Christmas Tony had lost 70 pounds and weighed 145 pounds.




Slowly, but surely, Tony was taking control of his life.  And he was smiling a whole lot more.  Kids at school were asking his advice in the gym and telling him how good he looked.  By January 2011 he had lost a total of 80 pounds and weighed 135.  By his 18th birthday in March 2011, he was wearing a size small shirt and size 32 pants.  By then Tony and Alex had been dating 6 months.



Tony's diet consisted of oatmeal, egg whites and natural peanut butter for breakfast.  Lunch is whole grain bread with turkey and fresh spinach OR a peanut butter sandwich, some almonds, veggies like broccoli, celery or a salad.  And dinner is usually chicken, pork chops, steak, tilapia or salmon with whole wheat tortilla's, whole wheat pasta or oatmeal.  This diet new eating habits for life really works for him.

By the beginning of April 2011, Tony had maintained his weight of 135 for over 3 months and had started building up some muscle mass.  Here's Tony in a pair of his old jeans.... No shit - can you believe this kid????


Remember last year when Tony went to his Junior Prom?  He weighed 215.  This year, for his Senior Prom, he weighed 135 pounds and went with the girl he always wanted! 


Now doesn't that smile on his face just sum it all up?

So here he is at his graduation, 80 pounds lighter and so much happier.


He and Alex have been dating for 11 months.  He has maintained his current weight successfully for 7 months.  He has learned how to eat properly and how to incorperate exercise into his life.  He lives by a few basic rules..... Be active every day.  Eat healthy when possible.  Have an occassional cheat meal on a day when you are overly active.  Find a strong motive to keep you on course.  Always believe in yourself.

I can't begin to tell you how proud of him I am.  He did it all himself.  He is happier and healthier than he has ever been.

Friday, July 29, 2011

A Blizzard in July

No, not really but we did have a blizzard here just about 6 months ago.  On Feb. 4th of this year we had a blizzard that resulted in 21" of snow.  And then there were the drifts that were 15 - 20 ft. high in places. Since we've been in the middle of this unrelenting heat wave I thought it would be fun to pull up the blizzard pictures.  Back then we were dreaming about the heat of summer while we spent hour upon hour in the trucks plowing.

Here are just a few of the lots we had to plow open.....


And a before and after on this one....



This is out our back door.....



Our gangway and side door......

This was our driveway and it took about 3 hours just to dig out around my car...


And it was springtime before we got back to our shed....


Chablis and Abby were having a good time tho....
Back then we couldn't wait for summer.  Right about now I'd like to take a dive into that snow pile.  How come we always want what we haven't got??

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

PapaNonny Hit 1100!!

Please join me in throwing out a big congrats to my mom and dad - they just found their 1100th geocache while on vacation out in Colorado. 

Their geocaching name is PapaNonny.  They picked that name because that's what their grandchildren call them.  I think my parents are pretty impressive - my mom is 75 and my dad is almost 78 and they do a pretty good job of keeping up with us on our geocaching adventures.  They cache with us, my sisters and their husbands, their grand kids, alone and with other caching friends.  So far they have cached in 11 different states and 3 countries other than the United States.

Here they are at one of the very first caches we ever did in Kentucky...

Mom is really good at looking at a location and figuring out where the cache might be hidden....

And she loves to go to any of the social events....


Dad has the kind of mind that works really well on the puzzle caches and he'll get down and do the dirty work too!

PapaNonny have cached in the dark....

At restaurants.....

And in the woods....


They like the thrill of the hunt!

On June 4th they found their 1000th cache.....

Which means that in the past 7 weeks, they've found another 100 caches.  I think that's pretty darn good at any age.

Geocachers get commemorative caches placed in their honor for every 1000 finds.  Here they are with their 1000th commemorative cache....

I am really proud of my parents.  In just over 2 years they've found 1100 caches.  2000 isn't too far away!

Monday, July 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Shellbelle!!

Please join me in throwing out a special HAPPY BIRTHDAY to blogger extraordinaire Rhonda over at Shellbelle's Tiki Hut!  The Mountain Mermaid is hosting a huge virtual birthday party for Shellbelle and you are invited!  Shellbelle has a wonderful blog full of fun posts about growing up on the beach in California, shelling on the coast of Florida, creating cool stuff for her Etsy shop and lots of fun stuff in between.

She cares about our oceans, likes to bike and camp, hula to Don Ho and rock out to The Beach Boys.  She is most comfortable with sand between her toes and I think she has a secret crush on Brad Pitt.  She holds the song of the sea in her heart.

Grab a ukulele and a tiki torch and head on down to the beach for a party.  The Mai Tai's will be flowing like lava from a volcano and the dancing won't stop til the wee hours.  Stop by and check out her blog and wish her a happy birthday. 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RHONDA!!

Sunday, July 24, 2011

1500 Geocaches and Counting

Unless you're familiar with Geocaching you proably won't know what I'm talking about.  But anyone who follows my blog will know that I am a big fan of geocaching and tonight we hit our 1500th.  Yep, that means that we have actually gone out and found 1500 of the little suckers in just over 2 years. 

So far we have hiked and climbed......

 crawled....

 slipped, slid...


 and tumbled our merry way to 1500. 

We cached alone....

 with our family...



 and with lots of geocaching friends. ...




We've cached in parks....


woods.....


 parking lots and memorials....


museums....


 at peoples houses, in caves, on lakes and across streams....




We've cached in the rain and snow.....




We've gone to picnics and bar-b-ques....



 breakfasts, ice cream socials and parties. 

We are slowly phooning our way thru the states....







I'm telling you that I am having the time of my life!  In the past week alone, we have cached at a bar-b-que...
in the dark....

Scaled a wall....


Found a cache on this....


Climbed a tree.....

Went to a sawmill......

Saw this gorgeous cross.....

And hit 1500!

I can't wait to see what we find next or how long it will take us to reach 1600.
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